Monday, January 05, 2009

lofty goals.

i've decided that yearly goals have no place in my book. just thinking of them gives me such a feeling of defeat. and failure.

sure, i want to strive to always be the very best ME that I can be.

i'm one of those too smart for her own good types. the girl who didn't struggle for a single second in high school. i skipped my junior year and graduated when i was 16. then went to college taking 18+ credit hours for three years solid, even through 3 summers.......and had a 4.0 every quarter. oh, and i worked full-time during school too.

i'm also the girl who can't seem to set a goal and accomplish it. as evidenced by my january lists that still remain every december.

did i somehow forget how to set a goal and plan the proper steps to work toward accomplishment? it seems that way. it's like a foreign language to me. i feel defeated before even starting. it's not so easy anymore.

so. no lofty goals for me. it'll just be a DAILY (not yearly) awareness of where i want to be---constantly working toward being the best me that I can be. hopefully that means, a less anxious, more patient, some pounds lighter, tania with more self-esteem and self-respect than i have today. oh, and longer fingernails. oh how i wish i could kick that disgusting nail-biting habit.

one day at a time.


  1. If you ever figure out a way to kick your nail biting habit please share. I have been trying since I was a kid and I am no kid anymore, but I am still a nail biter. Ugh.

  2. Good for you! A daily check is always more useful than a HUGE yearly goal...but this year I have some things I REALLY want to accomplish. We'll see!

  3. I too think that daily awareness is more important than an all encompassing yearly goal. I'm also a believer in doing what works for you.

  4. Babysteps's how I got on the Dean's List! Take it a day at a time, a week at a time and before you know'll be Mission Accomplished! GO YOU!! (I'll be your cheerleader!)

  5. I haven't made any new year's resolutions - I've found through the years that to last the whole calendar year, a resolution would have to be so general as to not really be effective. ("Be more organized" - did I really mean that three years ago??) So daily goals are a great option - and I'm rooting for you in your goals!

  6. Boy do I understand you comments! I think part of it is we never did have to work for those goals/grades and so don't truly have an idea of what the process is. Logically yes, day to day and applying it, no. At least that is my excuse and I'm stickin' to it!

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